Wednesday, December 13, 2006

Lovely eyes

Woman and child - Jharkand

Everyone loves the beautiful rural Indian woman photo. She looks happy, romantic and lovely. Often she has big breasts and also looks mysterious and enigmatic. What an idyllic life says the photographer and clicks away. Later in drawing rooms in the city people will exclaim and say how pretty she is and what a beautiful image and what lovely eyes, and this is just like that afghan girl picture whatshisname shot and the photographer smiles and acts like it was nothing and maybe even simpers a bit before asking for her phone number.

(Guilty)


Rajasthani women

To cut a long story short, many rural women in India seem to be treated terribly from before they're born until they die. They are considered beings of lesser value by a system supported by mythologies, traditions and histories of exploitation and suppression.

"The persistence of hunger and abject poverty in India and other parts of the world is due in large measure to the subjugation, marginalization and disempowerment of women. Women suffer from hunger and poverty in greater numbers and to a great degree then men. At the same time, it is women who bear the primary responsibility for actions needed to end hunger: education, nutrition, health and family income." - The Hunger project


Rural Tribal women have the highest mortality rates for infants, the highest fertility rates (related to malnourishment where fertility increases to compensate for infant mortality) and chronic malnutrition.

Most Indian women spend about three hours a day cooking in poorly ventilated rooms. The impact of fumes includes eye infections, respiratory problems, bronchitis and lung cancer. One study quoted by WHO in 1991 found that pregnant women cooking over open stoves had almost a 50 percent higher chance of stillbirth.

Tribal women especially have a lower life expectancy than the national average. With cervical cancer, more than 130,000 new cases—roughly one-fourth of the global total—are reported in India every year. Health facilities are inadequate and often non-existent in rural India. India’s maternal mortality rates in rural places are among the highest in the world.


There seems to be an alarming rise in atrocities against women in India (at least their reportage which means that there are far more crimes than reported) in terms of rapes, assaults, harrassment and murders. Female infanticide, sex-selective abortions and the witholding of education for the girl child are additional forms of violence that reflect the devaluation of women in Indian society.


Sexual exploitation of tribal women if commonplace and many are sold off to brothels in cities from impoverished places. When large development projects happen, sexual exploitation of tribal women is rampant. Violence against women in UP and Rajasthan where many of these images were taken is very high. Uttar Pradesh ranked first and Rajasthan ranked fourth in the ratings of recorded crimes against women according to the National crime bureau.


Just going by "reported" crimes in India, on average every 26 minutes a woman is molested. Every 34 minutes a rape takes place. Every 42 minutes a sexual harassment incident occurs. Every 43 minutes a woman is kidnapped. And every 93 minutes a woman is burnt to death over dowry.

That’s just what’s reported. The real numbers are much higher.


A woman who sold her kidney. Her husband drank the proceeds

A quarter of reported rapes involve female children below the age of 16. The vast majority sexual assaults are not reported due to the social stigma attached victims of such crimes. Convictions are very rare.

Violence within the home is widespread all over rural India and in the cities as well. Methods of killing women at home includes setting them on fire, beating them to death and poisoning. Gender discrimination against women seems deeply embedded within traditional societies across the nation.


Rajasthani Village girls

The literacy rate of the rural tribal female is the lowest amongst all social groups in India. Their schools are inadequate for the most part. Many girls are not sent to school.Families are far less likely to educate girls than boys, and far more likely to pull them out of school so that they can work in the fields.

Even if girls do get schooled employment opportunities in the country side are most often non existent. Women and girls receive far less education than males, due both to social norms and fear of violence.

In India, the illliteracy rate for women is 62 percent verses 35 percent for men.

India has the largest population of non-school-going working girls on the planet.


Rajasthani women

The Indian rural woman does not have property rights for the most part. She is paid less than her male counterpart for the same work. Women work roughly twice as many hours as men.



(Mies 1986) found that the work day of an female agricultural labourer during the harvest season lasts for 15 hours a day. Her male counterpart works for seven to eight hours a day.



A woman underges an exorcism in Uttar Pradesh that involves the ghost being beaten out of her.

Divorce is very rare in India and most often occurs only due to overwhelming abuse— it is a considered an admission of a woman’s failure as a wife and daughter-in-law. Our mythologies support this crap. When people say India has a low divorce rate and act proud about the same, do remember that that is because women arent able to dump the losers theyre with most often as they arent not able to support themselves. In 1990, divorced women made up a miniscule 0.08 percent of the total female population. When a woman gets divorced, she is often treated as an outcast.

Maintenance rights of women in the case of divorce are weak. Although both Hindu and Muslim law recognize the rights of women and children to maintenance, in practice, maintenance is most often violated.


Chopping wood for the family

Hindu and Muslim personal law do not recognize matrimonial property. After a divorce, women have no rights to their houses or to other property accumulated during marriage. Basically, their contributions to the family and asset accumulation seem to go unrecognized ....totally.


Women in India are subject to discrimination not just on the basis of gender but on numerous other factors such as caste, community and religion. One member of the UN Human Rights Committee observed in 1997 that ''women are expendable in India''.

Sounds a little extreme? Look it up city slicker.




Does what I write offend you as an Indian? Its all old hat by the way. Do you think that this is a "foreign" idea of India, an outdated version, an exotic version, something in the past?

"Amartya Sen points out that when he took up issues of women's welfare, he was accused in India of voicing "foreign concerns." "I was told Indian women don't think like that about equality. But I would like to argue that if they don't think like that they should be given a real opportunity to think like that."


A child maid servant being "rescued" in Delhi.

I've heard ( in various living rooms ) a lot about fundamentalist Islamic countries where women are treated horribly, while an underpaid maid gets yelled at for dropping marie biscuits on the carpet. Our own country "numbers wise", is worse off. Many more women get burnt to death, murdered, bludgeoned and tortured to death in India every year than all the middle eastern "Islamic" nations put together. Most of these women in India, who suffer these agonies, happen to be Hindu.




A free people cannot be born of slave mothers. We live in cities and are removed from the gross realities of our own country or choose to ignore them. Class and caste separate us into little islands of ignorance and masterbatory conversation. We exploit and underpay our maids. We take dowry. We offer it. We ignore what lies outside our social spheres. Our inferiority complexes do not allow for criticism. We take offense at what the world says when its negative and act like puppy dogs when praise is doled out. It is all a part of our “Indian culture” or better put, our distinct lack of the same.







References and sources : Amnesty International, United Nations website, The hunger project, Mies report (1986),

64 comments:

Divya said...

hey those pictures were just awesome!

Sunisha said...

hey there..was just browsing through seeking a friend of mine who also happens to be baptised as Ryan..bumped onto your page.. which led me to your blogspot..i must applaud on your work! rock on man!!!

Arati said...

Hey Ryan, Loved your blog, the pictures are beautiful.

Priya Philip said...

Ryan ,
hi der
i saw ure fotos ........ dey r really good......i'm not a photographer or anything.... but i liked ure style!!!!
it is a very sad state tat women face in india rural or urban.....
though we say tat women hav freedom ..... its not really true..... still alot of changes need to be made .... lot of firststeps need to be taken towards the upliftmeent of women...
anyway ........ gr8 job
priya

Anusha Suryanarayan said...

... is truly a first for me! i do NOT (repeat NOT) write to people I don't know on orkut (and definitely not two messages in a row!!) But I visited your blogspot (during one of those wonderfully boring meetings in office when everyone else thinks you're busily writing notes on your laptop)... and I was overwhelmed by your current blog. The pics are fantastic, sure. But its not those that knocked me for a six. It was the fact that you chose to write about ''lovely eyes''. And so well too.
I now hope to find more men who care. And aren't afraid to voice their thoughts.
Bless you.

Anonymous said...

Nice Blog. Great Pictures. The 5th one (it does not have a caption) and 'Chopping wood for the family' are my favorites :)

The situation is very bad, I agree. And although there are laws in place, they do not do anything. City dwellers often do not realize that these things are still happening, after all most of India's population lives in villages. Whenever I think about all this, I never get an answer to 'How we can ever change this?' - because people always take shelter of 'culture' and 'religion' and 'society' - they're not willing to recognize the problem.

Anonymous said...

hey Ryan, lovely pictures but doesn't it just kill you to see what so many turn blind eyes towards?

It's saddest when the women start to fight back a bit and then pay the price for the 'lack of respect'.

I think India as a country has to get over it's hangover of 'respect'. There are men I despise who I'm forced to be polite to because the 'deserve' respect. When I know for a fact that they are not worthy of even the appearance of respect.

It's so hard to set things right when so few will even admit that something is wrong...

Anonymous said...

woww. a nice blog. hope it softens the hearts of those who see it and makes a lasting impression.

Genevieve said...

Beautiful as always Ryan. Ui barava save tumas. -Gen

Lillybell said...

Beautiful work, and at the same time, alarming.

Congratulations :)

Salil said...

Powerful stuff. Unfortunately, everything you have said is true.

Urvashi said...

I couldn't agree more....
And here I was thinking that I am the only one who gets pissed off then I see people mistreating maids, or anyone else for that matter......

Urvashi said...

I'd like to add more to wht i said yesterday (work pulled me from my workstation to a shoot!)
I love the way each picture is telling a story....
wht's alarming here is how the kids who grow up in cities are so "not aware" of the realities that we face... the other face of india
good job... if only we all make an effort!!! maybe it can change....

Senjuti said...

Marvellous depiction.

Senjuti

Taniya said...

great work!!
hey ryan...
i'm a fan already..amazing shots..will your work be shown at tasveer?

Anonymous said...

true...much appreciated...

Urvashi said...

truly lovely...

Senjuti said...

Marvellous depiction

Sonal said...

the way u hv drafted the essay .. is awesome !

Snigdha said...

NOW WHAT?
no hard feeelings please...YOU HAVE WORKED AND CARVED OUT THE THEORY which is alarming enough...its educable for people who are unawareof the whole matter..but now WHAT??? does it stop here at mere description???....YOU HAVE ALSO TALKED .....WROTE IT...made a beautiful essay...who works for it?

Prem said...

Great Photo Essay
That's one of the most touching, realistict photo essay I have ever seen. Each photo has it's one story to tell which is a reality hard to believe. The black & white versions have so much intensity to it. Each eyes are asking for something which is very heartbreaking.

Some photos have smiling people but there is so much sorrow in the life of rural indian women. Not many people know abt these things & doesn't care about this. That's really sad.

Well done Ryan.

Ryan Lobo said...

hi all,

Ive been posting a lot of comments i get of the blog from orkut. Anyone know how to automate the process i.e. orkut to blog?

swathi..sCrEAmIn: said...

mr lobo kudos...kudos to your photographs...no actually kudos to your sensitivity

shonali said...

hey ryan..all i can say is Thank You!you have spoken about a subject that i take very personally.thank you for being both eyes and voice for so many..forget men,i would love to send this to my blinkered "city slicker" women friends who declare that all this is a thing of the past.i think that ignorance is one of the greatest deterrents to change and sometimes just 'knowing" is the beginning of change.
i would like to see more from you on the subject in relation to the so called empowered urban indian woman.

dev said...

Wonderful, awesome, enlightening and ----shameful for all who have eyes and do not see, and hands who do not do care. Is there a site or an organisation who can bring your site to the mass of Indian politicians, bureaucrats and those who can directly do something about it?

ambika said...

really awesome.. some of your work is really good..in terms of composition..context.. light.. exposure.. really good stuff.. inspirin n eduatin... you should be on deviantart..

Mia said...

Hey Ryan
Great pictures ! They say a lot . I like your style of writing , it makes one notice and think in depth.

Benu Verma said...

visited the link...great pics...the best thing is the way u ve threaded them all together...women from all the different parts of the country united by one singleover arching politics..oppression and exploitation...celebrative work...

Benu Verma said...

i think women are the most beautiful art of nature...in all their faces and forms...

also...probably u can pinch it with some success scraps...the situation sounds a bit hopeless there...it ought not remain like tat....while u r at it...add on a new dimension

Sonali said...

Beutiful and very piognant.

Rev said...

very nice ryan!! keep up the good work!

Saju said...

The pictures are nice, though i couldn't read the write up/blog. At which part of India were these pictures taken?

Shireena said...

Georgeous Images and your writing is excellent.Impressive and provoking.You made me think and got my father all flustered when he read it. He thinks you are an "incendiary". lol

:0)

Shireena

Pooja Nair said...

I want to cry. i feel helpless. How can we even begin to improve the situation???
You have taken a step with creating an awareness. Good job.
Could you get this published? Write a book on it? How can we help those suffering women? how? Any ideas?

Parvathy said...

This is probably one of those umpteen rave mails you get everyday for your work! No matter how monotonous it is for you...I'm compelled to compliment you for your work! Those were stunning images of indians and culture!
Neat indeed!

Good luck!

Cheers,
Parvathy.

Anonymous said...

Ryan, You have pretty much copied all that you have written in your blog "Lovely Eyes", straight out of this website http://www.thp.org/reports/indiawom.htm written by Carol S. Coonrod, June 1998, without much to contribute on your own.
Now that you are bringing up this topic, what are you going to do about this situation? I suggest that you go to a village and provide, education, free health services [buy medicines and care for the sick and the helpless women], adopt a few little girls and dedicate your time for upliftment of this downtrodden society.
What this society needs is for people like you to act upon the gruesome facts and figures, for a better tomorrow. Otherwise you are just another one, repeating the same old story with a new title.

Ryan Lobo said...

Dear Annonymous,

Thank you for your comment. I have published it.

1. Take one magnifying glass. Go to bottom of blog. Sqint hard. You will see something written there called "Reference and sources" and a list of sites and other literature. The literature mentioned by you there is contained within my list. Ie. The hunger project. I have taken facts and figures off a number of sites and reports as I have mentioned above and from your site as I have stated.


2. I believe when it comes to facts they are best stated and credited to their sources (as I have done). The opinions in the blog are mine and I have written it using facts from sources more credible than research I could have come up with( ie if I had to come up with my own facts I would have had to have gotten them from an objectionable place…namely, my ass!), hence the words "references and sources". This is standard practice. I have published the url you mentioned which I did use as I mentioned, ie the hunger project. I guess people can decide what’s verbatim and credited for.


4. I presume you are from a big city, that you are privileged and that you are angry. I think that people should have it drilled into their heads that thousands of women are burnt and tortured every year in india while they lead protected lives, smoke their pot, intellectualize, live in little cocoons, talk shit, buy fairness creams and ignore the realities outside their own shells. I guess in some ways that I am guilty of apathy and a lot of what i mention above but think that i have changed my life in many ways to be more socially responsible. Still trying though and in many ways, I think, failing..

3. You seem upset. Is it because of the blog, because you seem to have taken the trouble to check up on what I have already stated clearly, to find a reason to get pissed off maybe....or is it because some other chord has been touched somewhere? It seems like the latter.

4. I think awareness is a good start ms. annonymous (btw...why did you not put your name there?) as most people i know in the city, know jack beyond what goes on beyond the latest sale or what to wear.
You are very right when you say that this is old hat (I mentioned that in the blog as well) but its surprising how few people know this. I am glad you do and hope more find out the same.


5.What I do to make it better for Indias women is my business. What you do is yours. I hate talking about this but I am involved in some projects to do with women’s rights: my sisters are adopted and I take the time to look after one of them who is physically challenged, I pay for the education of more than 20 girl children a year, I offer my services for free to some ngo’s which I respect (go through the blog), I research and shoot films for various houses on the same including Oprahs oxygen network, National Geographic and PBS, raise money for a Bangalore based leprosy project, work on and off at an orphanage, have paid for medical operations, have worked in brothels rescuing child prostitutes, got roughed up doing the same very recently and am currently putting together plans for a home for physically challenged children. It would be nice if you could help as so feel free to contact me at photolobo@gmail.com. I promise to be nice. (hmmm….maybe)

Look forward to hearing from you

:)

Best,

Ryan

Anonymous said...

Dear Ryan,
Great photos!
It is very sad to see how a nation - with such deep spiritual traditions that have the power to uplift people - on the other hand maltreat women in such a way! It's good to point a spotlight in these dark corners no one is willing to see. Thank you for sharing this with us!

OM SHAKTI!

Chaitu said...

very beautiful, but cant see them properly as the contrast is very low & its almost dark....i likd them , though!!!:-)

Sonal Mirchandani said...

I checked the webite address that "annonymous" mentioned and where is the verbatim stuff you took?

Rock on Ryan Lobo, your notes seems to have pissed off someone for a non existent reason.

Anonymous said...

repetition is good. reiteration is important lest we don't feel guilty anymore, lest we feel nothing.

the big city girls have problems too, as do the boys. never undermine the importance of money but the problems don't disappear with money. everything is different when money comes in... the causes we are fighting for - is it for recognition or for feel good? the people who want to be with us - is it for love or for upward mobility.

will we ever realise how base we are, how insignificant our problems? how important these "insignificant" problems are, the little things that matter. how all of these problems that plague us are a part of the universe of our own private experiences, but the only difference being that i have the luxury to sit back and speculate on all of this. I have a choice.

but for most it is not.

I am guilty.

-SR

Debarshi said...

great stuff
great stuff i dream of doing a photo essay like this on human interest areas . but will mitigate your effort and statement if i ask you about your camera and lens etc you were using i am doing this just to help in my efforts . i am new to photography .

Alkaa said...

Art from the heart!

Anonymous said...

So, wats your phone number?????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? ;)

Prasad said...

great job!

Rejoy~wanna b said...

xtraordinary stuff..gud work ryan...

Anonymous said...

Mr. Lobo,

Your blog irritated me as one keeps hearing about how poor India is while so much good things are happening. I came to your part of the blog where you talk about how we like to hear good things about ourselves/ hate criticism/ Indias inferiority complex etc and I think that you are right Mr Ryan.

I have ill treated my maid servant until recently. I think that we belive what we do is correct because noone thinks it is wrong and noone says so in our societys and we accept it like that as there is no opposition to our practices that have been happening for a very long time. Until I was reading your blog.

Thank you.

earthbound misfit said...

kudos ryan,love it,love it all,i dont need to say anymore,it speaks for itself.cheers and beers sir

Anonymous said...

Absolutely beautiful pictures but more than that was the great sensitivity with which you write.The depth of your feelings is more than evident. I know of your family (though not personally)and of your mother and I can see that the passion and greatness of your parents has filtered down to you. Keep up the good work.
Congratulations.

Mary Vanhingoven said...

Hi Ryan, I am still going over your blog - this story
is so sad but informative, the statistics are
terrible, most people are not aware of these things.
I was somewhat aware but did not know the numbers were
so high. I will get back to you, I want to read
through all the blogs. You really are a great
photographer and writer, you should be proud of
yourself.

Take care,
Mary

Sandra Y D' said...

hey ryan,

amazing soulful pictures...wish i had taken them..hope to see more soon...cheers

Cecilia said...

Good pics...eso the topic you chose..keep it coming:)

aditi said...

luved ur pics. keep up the good work!!!!

Teena said...

The pictures are nice, though i couldn't read the write up/blog. At which part of India were these pictures taken?

Anjili said...

Awesome work. The "reported" crimes stats made me go numb, it's unreal.

I applaud your talent and how you're using it to move people.

Anjili said...

Awesome work. The "reported" crime stat made me go numb, it's unreal.

I applaud you for your talents and how you're using them to move people.

genevieve said...

Ryan, this is such an important point for discussion. Amartya Sen outlines one important aspect of development and freedom of people as their ability to take part in open discussions and forums- hopefully more open forums such as this one are able to reach people who are willing to make a difference. It is comforting in some way that Sen also mentions that "women are increasingly seen , by men as well as women, as active agents of change" and they are seen as the agents who "can alter the lives of both women and men". Woman are also often the people who best handle micro credit loans. Janet Hunt also emphasizes the need to integrate women into development in order for development to succeed. You mention high fertility and infant mortality in rural areas, but one Indian region that should be commended for it's high levels of female literacy and therefore it's low fertility and infant mortality rates is Kerala. Hopefully more regions will follow her lead....

Anonymous said...

Ok, so Im hooked to your blog. I jst left a comment on the post you wrote on marriage and got back to work. A few mins later, I was back to read your other posts. Here I am, an IT professional, keyboard crunching, sitting cozy in the United States, consider myself to be a smart city woman and now very humbled by your post. "They" say that only a woman can understand another womans pain. I say a woman can be the cause of that pain too. Ironical isnt it? We claim that finally India is being noticed - we've gotten the Americans "bangalored", us women being treated as equals in IT and there we have the less "fortunate" ones abused, tortured and treated worthless. It breaks my heart. I have worked for social causes on and off when I was in Mumbai and I intend to get back (I head back in a month) and continue. Your post has only strengthened my resolve to try my bit at "bettering" the state of our women.
Bless you Ryan.

- Tia

Nithya said...

hey...i know what im going to say u have probably heard many times before...it doesn't hurt to say it twice though, right?...personally i loved your afghan/lovely eyes work...you have a rare gift of taking the reader with you on your journey...with each photo i felt i too was there with you...you are right, most people do not look beyond their nose and i will admit i am guilty of it as well sometimes...with so much going around us we are buffered from getting too close to anything that will take us outside our comfort zone...everything is designed to fit into OUR scheme of things...i know you are doing alot of work personally but have you thought of involving more people in your pro social wave?...the next time i bump into you i will have more to say than hello...inspiring work ryan

Anonymous said...

This blog is really fantastic as I have gone through all the posts. I shall link from my blogs to this blog soon.

Anonymous said...

Ryan! You probably know who *this* blast from the past is. I have been visiting your blog for a while now... and I would love to use some of your work to teach... so maybe we should talk again, after all this time and distance... I cannot tell you how very much I appreciate that you've held on to the idealism we once talked about on a rainy day on the streets of Bangalore...

Ushasi said...

We live in cities and are removed from the gross realities of our own country or choose to ignore them. Class and caste separate us into little islands of ignorance and masterbatory conversation. We exploit and underpay our maids. We take dowry. We offer it. We ignore what lies outside our social spheres. Our inferiority complexes do not allow for criticism. We take offense at what the world says when its negative and act like puppy dogs when praise is doled out. It is all a part of our “Indian culture” or better put, our distinct lack of the same.

I agree with you. I've faced this myself. If you criticize your own community or country for something that is commom knowledge, try to discuss unpleasant truths, people will jump down your throat and accuse you of lack of patriotism and the desire to ape the west. It's cowardly and stupid, and is precisely the attitude that will destroy the lives of thousands of women across the country.

Case in point the furore over the movie "Water". No one denied that these things happen to widows, it's just that we didn't like it being talked about.

ushasi said...

for some reason my commenst never show on your blog. why is that? :(

SIG said...

Wow, you're harsh. Not all of us actively perpetrate, just do so out of ignorance. The culture is fully internalized.

There is a difference between gender roles and gender supression.

There is the ignorance of privilege, for those who are privileged to remain so.

But we are not all that way. And masterbatory conversations are better than none at all.